THE CREATIVE ATHLETE

Issue 8--How Do You Combine Personal and Competitive Goals?

If you've been an athlete most or all of your life, it may never occur to you to think of yourself as anything else. But sometimes sports isn't the best way for you to satisfy your personal goals. In fact, sometimes sports might even be preventing you from satisfying them.

Therefore, it's a good idea for you to set up a mental checklist of everything that is really important to you. Then make some effort, either now or in the future, to incorporate these personal goals into your life. Sports and personal goals can be achieved simultaneously when they are compatible and when they work together to enhance your personal development. But if they are not compatible, you might want to at least insure that you can achieve both over the course of a lifetime.

According to career counselor Barbara Sher, "As your total life design unfolds, it will include many goals of different kinds, sizes, and shapes " (1) Her approach is to remind you that there are a variety of ways to reach your goals and satisfy your needs:

1. You can work toward one goal at a time.

She continued to compete for two more years, but quit to attend law school. She married, graduated from law school, passed the bar exam, went to work for a law firm. and stayed involved with skating as a judge.

Deciding that she could still be competitive, she resumed skating--spending her lunch hour and several evenings a week in training. In 1995 she made it back to the national championship and finished in eleventh place, her best finish ever.

2. You can work toward several goals simultaneously.

But she did get to the Olympics and she did get accepted to Northwestern University medical school. "A lot of people underestimate what they can accomplish. I'm going to go for the big thing. If I don't get the big thing, at least I get the next thing down from that, rather than not really trying for much of anything." (4)

3. You can alternate goals.

But in anticipation of softball's first appearance as an Olympic sport in Atlanta in 1996, Richardson decided to take a one year leave of absence from her orthopedic residency program at the University of Southern California. "I'm $140,000 in debt, but there's no price you can put on making the Olympic team."

She and her teammates won the gold medal.

4. You can combine goals.

"Coaching is going to be my career when I'm done competing and while this isn't exactly coaching at the elite level, it does require some administrative know-how and some cohesiveness with athletes. It's also a source of extra income that helps me out a lot.

"I'm lucky that I have a really good employer that understands my position as an athlete training for the Olympics and the time constraints that puts on me." (8)

Bradshaw finished fourth at the trials and did not make the team.

Carin Gabarra had three jobs during the time leading up to the Olympics. She served as a forward on the U.S. women's soccer team; she worked for Diadora sporting goods company; and she was the women's soccer coach at the U. S. Naval Academy. "We're the first generation of players who could play at a competitive level our whole life. Coaching is something most of us want to go into." (9)

5. You can focus on one major goal and experiment with meeting several others.

Coogan finished fourth at the women's Olympic marathon trials and did not make the team, but continues to run competitively.

Before the 1996 Olympic women's marathon trials (where she finished 13th) she said, "If I don't make the team, I'll just resume my place with my family and the rest of society. I've got plenty of things to do." (12)

 
1 Barbara Sher, with Annie Gottlieb, Wishcraft (New York: Viking, 1979).
2 USA Today, August 2, 1993.
3 USA Today, September 14, 1994.
4 Rocky Mountain News, November 10, 1991.
5 Colorado Springs Gazette Telegraph, August 6, 1995.
6 Heckler Magazine, 1996 (posted at heckler.com).
7 The New York Times, July 24, 1995.
8 USA Today, October 5, 1995.
9 USA Today, October 5, 1995.
10 USA Today, October 14, 1994.
11 Boulder Daily Camera, April 10, 1995.
12 Runner's World, February, 1996.
Copyright 1997 Suzanne Lainson/SportsTrust


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