THE CREATIVE ATHLETE

Issue 18--Comebacks

The last issue of The Creative Athlete discussed retirement. Before moving on to comebacks, I want to note that retirement doesn't have to be a given for older athletes.

Said tennis legend Billie Jean King, "When athletes reach their thirties, psychologically they think they should quit because everybody keeps telling them they should quit. They start to think they are slowing down because everybody asks, 'Are you slowing down?' And pretty soon they're not as motivated as they were before.

"But physically, scientists are finding that there isn't any difference between a 37-year-old athlete and a 27-year-old one." (1) Some examples:

He proved his point by winning the 110-meter hurdles at the 1995 U.S. National Championships at age 33.

Comebacks

Sometimes athletes retire and then change their minds. Competitive sports is hard to give up and some athletes miss it. "Retirement day arrives and overnight these needs go begging, unmet, frustrated. Inside, there is a psychological vacuum; nothing in the new lifestyle can hope to fill it. But they try and try, and the payoff is the same--boredom, emptiness, restlessness--and no megabuck to show for their misery," said William J. Beausay, Ph.D., then president of The Academy of Sports Psychology International. (6) Examples:

Money plays a role in some comebacks, most notably in boxing. Former athletes see the big money some athletes are paid today and decide they want a share. Example:

"Another paycheck means another $ 1 million in my kids' trust fund." (9)

According Thomas Tutko, a psychology professor at San Jose State University and author of Winning is Everything and Other American Myths, there are several reasons for comebacks in addition to a desire to return to the spotlight.

"First, I think a vast majority (of athletes who attempt comebacks) have never been prepared for any other thing in life. They've been asked or told to leave a safe haven of total security for a world that's frightening.

"Second, there are enough cases of people making it back into sports, even if only briefly, that athletes begin to think anyone can make it.

"Third, they've had a competitive spirit all their lives. So this becomes just another challenge." (10)

Tutko also pointed out that athletes aren't always given good advice when it comes to their chances for making successful comebacks. They may be surrounded by people who tell them what they want to hear, not what they need to hear.

Here are some points to keep in mind for anyone contemplating a comeback:

1. Thinking about a comeback is one thing; putting out the effort is another.

Full-time training is hard work. Remember what it was like when you used to do it and then think about why you quit in the first place. Examples:

Still, Scott made a successful comeback and finished second at the 1994 Ironman.

He noted later that he hadn't allowed enough time to get ready first. "... playing tennis, bike riding and lifting weights is real different from throwing pitches, especially when you tack on seven years of retirement.'' (12)

2. Try to pinpoint what you're really trying to accomplish.

Maybe you can achieve it in ways other than making a comeback. Is getting into sports full-time the only way to fill a void? Examples:

"During my sabbatical from triathlons, I discovered I needed the physical and emotional challenge of training for the tough events. You start to lose motivation when there are no new goals. Besides, nothing worth doing is easy and nothing easy is worth doing." (14)

In 1995 she set a record for the 100-mile Iditashoe Alaskan snowshoe race.

Biondi went on to two gold medals in team events and a silver medal in the 50 meter freestyle at the 1992 Barcelona Olympics, giving him a total of 11 Olympic medals (8 gold) in his career.

3. If you do decide to give it a try, give yourself a sense of closure.

In other words, win or lose, tell yourself that you tried and it's time to move on. Let yourself feel satisfied with the effort, no matter what the outcome. Either you will be successful and you will prove to yourself and everyone else that you can come back. Or you won't be successful in achieving your goal, but you will prove that you were willing to try. Example:

He didn't make the team.

"When I crossed the finish line, I was elated. I'd given 100 percent. It was a relief to have it over. I was glad I tried. If I hadn't, I'd still be wondering if I could have made the team." (16)
 
1 Colorado Springs Gazette Telegraph, January 8, 1984. (Reprinted from a Los Angeles Times article.)
2 Colorado Springs Gazette Telegraph, March 22, 1995.
3 USA Today, October 5, 1995.
4 Colorado Springs Gazette Telegraph, September 8, 1995.
5 USA Today, April 19, 1995.
6 USA Today, May 14, 1991.
7 The Denver Post, September, 3, 1989.
8 The Wall Street Journal, July 16, 1993.
9 The Orange County Register, January 14, 1990.
10 St. Petersburg Times, April 18, 1991.
11 The Washington Times, October 15, 1994.
12 St. Louis Post-Dispatch, May 27, 1991.
13 USA Today, May 14, 1991.
14 Women's Sports & Fitness, October 1990.
15 USA Today, July 28, 1992.
16 USA Today, December 26, 1989.
Copyright 1997 Suzanne Lainson/SportsTrust


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